Why do you even try with men?

They bring nothing but unhappiness anyway. The one I was with courted me, and gave me flowers, and what not, until I fell in love. Then there was that woman, so very pretty! And I am nothing, just long and thin. She just appeared, smiled at him a couple of times, and off he went. She wasn't even that a good person, but made her living off men, and gave my then ex two STDs at once (which she picked off someone else). Some time after I met another. He was "in love" with me, too. We even decided to marry. While I cleaned his house from top to bottom for the reception, he was out with a solid, big woman who owed a grocery store. Not much to look at, but a woman of property. Off he went with her, a week before that wedding, and it turned out that I cleaned the house for her.

Why even try to be nice or pleasant, or anything? They will go away with some pretty con artist, or some owner of this or that. It feels so devastating, they can be only kept by looks or money.

Why do you even try with men?
My apology of all your bad experience with man. You have met all the devils and I hope you will meet a nice guy an dyou will see the other side of the coin. Until than best of luck and hopefully you will get the sunshine you deserve my dear.
Reply:It helps if you can cook too
Reply:Sorry to hear about this . Unfortunatley there are alot of men out there that are jerks . It sux when you have to find that out this way . But not all men are like that . You were better off not with them anyway . I mean they are the one's who are worst off . I know it will be hard to understand this . But just take your time and know what to look out for . One day a true man will be in your life .And he will do what it takes to want and keep your love .
Reply:...The thing is no matter how painful they hurt us wee need them to feel loved..WE need emotional security from them and we need the attention....





There's no such thing as living without the male species because we live for them and they live for us...Not even one independent woman could live without a man...So, dont fret!





Just think that not all relationships are the same...YOu may feel so low at this one but be assured that the next one coming will certainly have a difference....=)
Reply:what is your question exactly?
Reply:sorry you got hurt but dont give up on men. you will find that special person just dont give up. there are some guys that are jerks and betray their "loved" ones but there are still some decent ones out there and if you keep looking you will find him
Reply:first off guys are a bunch of whores second other sluty girls get jeliouse becus of your new bf n thay do anything to take him away from you so drpession sets in and you feel like killing your self till you find some one else n damm it a big *** fing cycle of depression n confusing o joy its called life n it really suxs
Reply:Hey, there there.. I am sorry you suffered that. That must be painful. I was married to a very pretty turkish girl, and I was very devastated at the hatred i suffered by the community and then eventually her family except the youngest sister loved me. Still does. but anyhow so i had to divorce her because eventually she called me a ****** too. So hatred breeds hatred and love breeds love. When you love those who hate you then you bring back yourself love. Then one day you might meet a guy with a similar story who got hurt like you did, you two then click based on your experience and you like each other and know your need for love. It's a big world out there and that is not hard to find since so many cheat out here man and woman.



Anyways just a thought.
Reply:I'm so sorry that you were hurt by those two jerks. They don't deserve someone like you. Don't give up on love just because of them two. Take some time for yourself to heal, but one day your heart will tell you that you are ready for love again. This time, you should look closely and pick a person with values and ethics. We all have dated jerks at one point or another, we learn from our experiences and grow as a person. You should be happy that your ex boyfriends got what they deserved by dating those two women.
Reply:It is a bad situation but you will do more harm if you feel sorry for urself. Take life as it comes and be bold in life no matter what. i know its easier said than done...!! all the best
Reply:I am sorry about your experience. But have in mind that not all men are like you described. Maybe, the guys that you dated were players, maybe they wanted to take advantage of you or maybe it was something that you did to scare them. I do not know you and I cannot give you a factual explanation. But I can assure you, that there are guys out there that can cherish and love a woman. And maybe some of them are having the same problem you have. Keep on looking. There is no written blackboard in the sky with our destiny. We create our own. Maybe one day, you will be happier than all that hurt you. Love yourself, and others will love you. Good luck!