Do you feel your only allowed so many bridezilla moments?

As a bride... I feel I'm entitled to only so many "bridezilla" moments.. and i'm not saying it's one of those stomp your feet and have a temper tantrum moments, but you know.. its only of those things.. where it has to be this way. or nothing else :)



I'm allowing myself 5! :)



they are:



1. I want to wear flip flops.. as they are comfy and no one is going to see my feet.



2. I want to continue lawn surfing.. as it's fun.. and my legs have healed from the last time :)



3. My ring bearer ended up getting a mowhawk a month before the wedding.. and his hair better grow back! and it better not be blue either!



4. I wanted lilacs for my flowers.. but they are already blooming here.. SO we might have to have them imported from Holland.. I think it's a must... we just might have to postpone to next year...

SO I'm hoping it's not going to cost a lot to make sure they are there...



5. I don't want to give a big speach at the reception..



Those are mine..



What are yours?

Do you feel your only allowed so many bridezilla moments?
I have to say #4 is total Bridezilla- yikes!



I felt like a bridezilla (although my very honest %26amp; forward MOH said I'm not) about my bridesmaids dresses. I want them to choose their own from a particular designer and I feel like a bridezilla telling them the "requirements" for their dress: tea length or longer, jacket-shawl or short sleeves so they are dressed properly for the ceremony in church, matching shoes, chiffon fabric, and they've got to run it past me before they buy so I can ensure the dresses all look good together (my BMs are spread out so I doubt they will all be together at one time for dress shopping).



There are other things I am insisting on:

No Chicken Dance or Macarena (I hate them)

No rap, hip-hop or club-type music (hate it!)

No costumes (my wedding is on Halloween)
Reply:I dont think those a re bridezilla moments, I think its jsut the way you want things. You are entitled to ahve you special day be just that for you.

The flip flops are a great idea, you want to be comfy

Can he shave off the mohawk?



Bridezilla to me is whtn you make other epopel do crazy things to make you happy! You arent doign that!
Reply:I think having certain things you want for yoru wedding aren't bridezilla moments. That's what planning is all about. I personally don't think any bride is entitled to any, and if one slips out, she needs to apologize for her bad behavior, just like anyone else in any other situation.
Reply:My dad is not allowed to spike his hair (midlife crisis much, hello). That's about it so far, ask me in 10 days when its the rehearsal and I have to lay the smack down on the groomsmen, I'm sure there will be more.
Reply:its your wedding.... have as many moments as you want. you only get one wedding and its going to be the best day of your life. make it how you want it!!
Reply:i dont know because i am not married and i will not get marred till i am old enought to get married so yeah what do u think
Reply:I had nary a one. We planned a lovely, traditional wedding for 200 - and all went well! Guess it's a maturity factor...
Reply:Can I come? #2 sounds like a lot of fun!!!



I didn't have any bridezilla moments but it's your wedding so have as many as you want.
Reply:I feel your pain! I only think one of those are true bridezillas tho! I am known to stress...or 'freak out' as some might claim, so I have promised myself I won't have any bridezilla monents just to prove everyone wrong. They watched that show and insist (before the proposal) that I was going to be just like that, especially my mom. So in order to keep my sanity, I started planning early and they can all suck it! I have until Oct. 11 and the only thing that's really gonna make me snap is one sucky BM and the grooms dad has stated he won't wear a tux. Fine, you don't wanna wear a tux, I don't want you in the pics! We'll see how that goes!

Best of luck and congrats!
Reply:i think as long as your bridezilla moments affect yourself and not other people involved, go ahead.... delaying a wedding over getting exact flowers?! wow, definately a bridezilla moment, but as long as that doesn't affect people goign to the wedding (travel costs, accomodations, dresses, etc.) then i don't care.... just try not to torture your bridesmaids.... i have a bride that is torturing me so i beg of you :) it's your wedding day, go do whatever you want for it lol just keep some lines on what you force other people to do....
Reply:I agree with everyone of yours except #4. Dont delay your wedding over flowers. I wanted to wear flip flops too, but my mom talked me into pretty shoes bc every one does see them when the groom takes the garter off your leg I just got low heels. And don't worry about anyone else. Everyone tells me that I have bridezilla moments just because the damn groomsman want to wear different colors of ties and I wont let them, and I just don't listen to anyone and agree with my self bc that'd be ugly!

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